Grief & Loss Counselling
What Is Grief Like?
Common feelings, thoughts, and behaviors associated with grief can include:
- Emotional responses: Feeling overwhelmed, sad, angry, lonely, or even a sense of relief, guilt, or shame.
- Cognitive responses: Experiencing repetitive or intrusive thoughts, blaming yourself or others, or having difficulty concentrating and making decisions.
- Physical symptoms: Crying, fatigue, changes in sleep and appetite, headaches, or muscle aches.
It’s important to remember that grief is not a linear process and how you feel will be unique to you. The key is to give yourself the space and time to work through the emotional unpredictability that comes with loss.
When to Seek Grief Counselling
It can be difficult to discuss your deepest feelings with friends and family, and keeping those feelings to yourself can prevent you from healing. Our caring and supportive therapists can help you work through these issues in a way that promotes psychological healing.
Understanding Complicated Grief
The death of a loved one is one of the most distressing experiences a person can face. If you lost a loved one under traumatic, sudden, or unexpected circumstances, you may be at risk of experiencing complicated grief.
While complicated grief initially looks like normal grief, the symptoms don’t tend to fade. Instead, they can become worse over time, interfering with your healing. Signs of complicated grief may include:
- Persistent, intense sorrow and pain.
- An inability to focus on anything other than the loss.
- Intense longing for your loved one.
- Feeling numb, detached, or bitter about your loss.
- Struggling to accept the death or feeling that life is meaningless.
- Withdrawing from others.
- Feelings of guilt or self-blame.

